The ABCs of Bullying
Addressing, Blocking, and Curbing School Aggression

Module 2: The Role of Bullies, Victims, and Witnesses - Page 9 of 18

Passive Victims

Children who can be characterized as passive victims or submissive victimsref share certain qualities. Often, these children are:ref

"If you treat people like dirt, like nothing, that's how you're going to feel." -quote from a bullyref

Other characteristics often found in passive victims include:ref, ref

Passive victims represent roughly 80-85 percent of all victims.ref It is worth noting that some of the characteristics of passive victims may be seen as contributing factors as well as consequences of victimization.ref For example, if a child feels and acts insecure, his or her behavior may signal to others that he or she is an easy victim for bullying. The insecurity may therefore be viewed as contributing to the abuse. However, a child who is bullied regularly also is likely to experience insecurity because of the bullying behavior.

Bullies often engage in a "shopping process" to find students who will become their preferred victims, according to Gary Ladd, Ph.D., professor at the University of Illinois. They look for students who reward them by showing distress, who relinquish tangible resources, and who are less likely to retaliate or report them.

Bullies may pick any excuse to justify their intimidating and hurtful behavior, but research indicates that children with disabilities have a higher likelihood of becoming victims of bullying. These disabilities may include muscular dystrophy, cerebral palsy, or stuttering.ref