The ABCs of Bullying
Addressing, Blocking, and Curbing School Aggression
Module 3: Factors Contributing to Bullying and Violence - Page 15 of 17
Strategies for Promoting Resiliency
To prevent your child from being bullied:ref
- Instill self-confidence in your child.
- Help your child establish good social skills.
- Teach your child to speak out for himself or herself.
- Teach your child to seek help, if harassed, from you and other caring adults.
To prevent your child from bullying:ref
- Present yourself as a model of nonviolent behavior.
- Clearly state that violence is not acceptable.
- Assist your child in finding nonviolent strategies for anger management and conflict resolution.
- Seek help from mental health/school counselors to help stop bullying and aggressive behavior.
Practitioners also can help youth develop resiliency. Some strategies include:ref
- Identify the youth's assets.
- Identify the family's assets.
- Role model positive behavior.
- Encourage learning and participation in extracurricular activities.
- Encourage the youth to explore and identify his or her values and beliefs.
- Teach communication skills, problem solving skills, and decisionmaking skills.
- Promote community involvement.
- Help youth to identify goals and find the resources to help achieve these goals.
- Set clear expectations with the youth.
- Encourage the youth to develop a positive sense of self.








