The ABCs of Bullying
Addressing, Blocking, and Curbing School Aggression
Module 6: Prevention and Intervention - Page 13 of 16
For Children who Bully
Children who bully should be:ref
- Monitored and rewarded for appropriate behavior and for improvements (e.g., reduced incidents of bullying and increasingly longer periods of no bullying).
- Given clear sanctions for acts of bullying. (Punishing bullying behavior without acknowledging the experience of the victim can foster frustration and more aggression. Support bullies when they are victims.)
For Witnesses and Bystanders
Witnesses and bystanders can play a large role in stopping bullying at a school. They can be taught to:ref, ref
- Request that the bully stop.
- Seek immediate adult help if the bully does not stop.
- Speak up and/or offer support to the victim (e.g., pick up his or her books, offer words of kindness).
- Privately support those being hurt with words of kindness.
- Take the bully aside and ask him or her to "cool it."
- Express disapproval of the bullying behavior by not joining in the laughter, teasing, or spreading rumors or gossip.








