It Won't Happen to Me:
Substance Abuse-Related Violence Against Women
for Anyone Concerned About The Issues
Issues for Teens
Teens lack experience in dating relationships. Those in violent or abusive relationships often do not realize that the abuse is unhealthy. They often see jealousy as a normal way to show love and devotion.
Teenagers are also reluctant to seek help from adults. They fear that if they tell someone about the abuse, the person they tell will blame them. They also fear that many new privileges may be taken away.
In most cases, the teenage abuser does not feel responsible for his actions. When he grows up, he may continue to have violent relationships. He may even get involved in criminal behavior. The guy may pester or threaten to hurt his girlfriend's friends or family. He may also threaten to harm her pet.
Teenagers are at a very difficult time in their lives. Relationships with friends and romantic partners add to this sense of confusion. Young women have not had time to establish their own self-esteem and identity fully. Therefore, the effects of violence will show up in different ways.
Teenage girls may:
- Develop eating disorders, such as anorexia (starving themselves to be thin) or bulimia (bingeing and purging)
- Use drugs and alcohol to numb their sense of guilt and shame
- Have trouble sleeping
- Develop stress-related physical illnesses
- Become depressed and even suicidal
- Become distracted and allow their studies to slip
- Become more isolated from peers and family15








